We're afraid of difference. This is reflected not only in violent intolerance but also in the pluralistic syncretism of progressive culture. Some people have so tried to emphasize the common ground of all religions (and certainly there is some) that they done injustice to the particularities of all religions. If I say, for example, that Muslims and Christians are the same, I'm not being fair to either Christians or Muslims. The fact is, we're different. We're making different claims about the world, about history, even about ethics. And that's ok.
I think that we need to teach not only inter-religious tolerance but also inter-religious difference. I'm afraid that this generation of teenagers has, generally speaking, lost their sense of difference within the sea of tolerance and inclusiveness. We need conversations that aren't always all about making sure that we try to agree in the end. We need to learn how to disagree well without losing the uniqueness of our message. I say this selfishly insofar as I want to preserve the radical and contrasting distinctiveness of Christianity but graciously as well, I want to affirm the dignity and the integrity of those with whom I disagree.
We need not fear our differences. We need not fear other religions. We should not always be out to criticize and raise suspicion. We should love our neighbors as we love ourselves. Indeed, perfect love casts out fear.